I can't decide...

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gran-gran and ivey

how to post the pictures of Ivey's birthday.  Sunday I only took a few pictures, a meager 419.  Then today I took another 41 at her preschool - not many at all.  You would think it would be easy to choose. 

I took 80 of Ivey eating her cake.  But with just cause - this was the FIRST time that Ivey actually ate any of her cake.  She liked it so much that she decided to wear half of it. 

So if one picture says a thousand words - just think how many words are screaming from 460 of them -

Comments

KrisKay said…
I love this photo!!! You can just see the joy in her face! Love it! MORE MORE, we need more!!!
April 26, 2010 at 9:05 PM
Rhonda Miller said…
How precious. I hope she really enjoyed her day.
April 26, 2010 at 9:06 PM
Lauren said…
Mrs. Sirmans(I'm not sure if you want your last name on here or not so I totally understand if you don't approved this)
I just wanted to tell you that I have been following your blog for awhile and I am completely captivated and inspired by the love between you and your daughter (and your entire family for that matter). You have taught me so much through your words and insight and have opened my eyes to an entirely new perspective on life that might have otherwise gone unseen. I am encouraged by your huge faith in the Lord and in your incredible spirit and joy for life. Thank you for sharing so candidly!
always,
Lauren (Dickson) Shank
April 26, 2010 at 9:06 PM
Paula said…
Precious! I am glad Ivey enjoyed her birthday and blessed you shared it with us! :)
April 27, 2010 at 10:35 AM
Heather said…
Eating beautiful girl?Now that is beautiful.Anxiously waiting the additional 460!!
April 27, 2010 at 3:09 PM
Www.lozsmedicsljourney.blogspot.co.uk said…
aw thats a lovely picture
she looks SO happy! :D and hope she had a good birthday! :)
April 28, 2010 at 11:14 AM
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