Siblings of kiddos with disabilities are amazing humans walking amongst us. They live a life, most often, in the shadows of their sibling who simply needs "more". More time. More direct attention. More of more. We have now come to a fork in our road. Our boys are young men, and, our daughter is a young lady. I'll be honest, I was uncertain what life would look like once the boys left this home, once they had their own time, in their own personal sunshine. We found out quickly once Knox left for college his freshman year what that would look like. And then, when Walker left, we knew what life would feel like in their absence. There was too much space. Ivey felt it. We get many compliments about the relationship the boys and Ivey have with one another. Hints here and there that, maybe, Matt and I had some secret recipe to parenting a household with a child that is very medically complex and a very complex communicator. This is what I can tell you - there is no re...
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Ivey is so beautiful. I love the picture you have at the top of the blog. It was fun to watch her explore her silverware and her juice box holder (the red piece with the stars). It was also fun to watch her as if she says "Done with that for now!" and drops it on the floor. Does she still like her spin brush?
And no we dont have to have it all together at all times. Sometimes, like you said, slow and steady. In this day and age we are taught to multi-task.....faster, quicker. This is not the case when it comes to our children. :)
-Shannon in Austin