22 and 3/4th years. Every word, and more. We were told in the first 2 weeks after Ivey was born, in the midst of the chaos of her and having two toddler boys at home - that our marriage would likely end in divorce. Most special needs marriages do. Special needs marriages are a section of divorce happening at a higher rate than most- yet, overlooked by most. Still, someone felt compelled that we know that information during such a life altering time. It was an added layer we struggled to process, along with many other devastating blows. It scared us beyond belief. We were clinging to one another. Over the years, we have pushed the limits, the barriers. We have slept in the same bed, for weeks separated by miles and hospital walls, with nurses in the next room in the sacred walls of our home, and now, with our daughter tucked away in her own bed in our room. We have hung onto thin air at times. And, we have held on to each other. We were told in counseling, in our darkest days,...
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(And I love seeing all the pictures of your kids!!)
I keep up with Ivey through my daughter-in-law Stacy and also through your posting on Ivey's blog. I check each day to find out how Ivey is doing.
You have a special touch when writing about your family. Most of us are not as gifted as you are in expressing your thoughts and feelings. I hope the best for your and your family this year.
I hope the kids had a wonderful Christmas! I am sure that Santa was good to them all.
Your postings have kept us all updated on your daily travels and Ivey's progress. This Christmas was different for me than any other. I finally realized the real meaning of Christmas. Of course in the years past I understood what it was about but through your postings it has opened my eyes to what life is all about. You have inspired me so much over these past 8 months. God has a plan for all of us and he has used you to show me the real light. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing these postings.
We continue to pray for Ivey and your family.
Sending all of our love,
Morgan and Monica