Siblings of kiddos with disabilities are amazing humans walking amongst us. They live a life, most often, in the shadows of their sibling who simply needs "more". More time. More direct attention. More of more. We have now come to a fork in our road. Our boys are young men, and, our daughter is a young lady. I'll be honest, I was uncertain what life would look like once the boys left this home, once they had their own time, in their own personal sunshine. We found out quickly once Knox left for college his freshman year what that would look like. And then, when Walker left, we knew what life would feel like in their absence. There was too much space. Ivey felt it. We get many compliments about the relationship the boys and Ivey have with one another. Hints here and there that, maybe, Matt and I had some secret recipe to parenting a household with a child that is very medically complex and a very complex communicator. This is what I can tell you - there is no re...
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And Gwen, one day, I know that we will sit with our girls and we will have no logical explanation of why it is we found each other across the great divide, but we will marvel that we did and laugh and cry, and know that it was not by coincidence but merely God being anonymous and that we listened and heard His gentle whisper, despite overwhelming life circumstance, is a miracle that resides right alongside our little miracle girls.
Honestly, each quote that came up,quotes that are so absolutely near and dear to my heart, words that strengthened me during some of my darkest days, each quote I read,tears fell. Not tears of sadness but of joy, in the wonder of this day.
Miss Ivey, you ran your own race indeed and I cannot wait to see the rest of your beautiful journey unfold. Thank you for allowing me,allowing us, to tag along with you.
Love, Jill :)