Today was one of those really good days with no particular reason why. This post is just a small reminder to my self that it doesn't all have to be perfect or complete for it to be a good day.
I have been working on the schedule now that school will be back in session trying to work-in all of the requirements and those things expected. It is overwhelming already. This is to remind myself, when the schedule seems to take over, that this is what it's all about and there is no way to do it all – all of the time. We will get it all done at our own pace. Maybe not in some one else's time frame, but in our own, in the way that is best for everyone in our FAMILY. What is it they say…..slow and steady wins the race.
So if you look at the video you will see a multitude of things going on. It all depends on your perspective. Good things, okay things, some things that could be done better. Ivey's in her stander, playing with her mealtime utensils. Amazingly, her hearing aids are on her ears. Her eyes are not in; the trach stoma is not covered. Even though it is dinner time, I am not feeding her. It's only the feeding tube right now. But we are all content right now.
Tomorrow when the hustle and bustle starts up again I want to remind myself what's really important. She will be just fine even if we do not meet all the requirements of all the different agendas set for her. We will do the best we can and that will have to be enough. Take a deep breath and slow down…..slow and steady wins the race.
4 comments:
I just loved watching Ivey doing her thing,exploring the world around her.I was so excited for her and you all when I saw she finally got her hearing aids.You know ,it seems to me that it is a constant struggle to balance between the necessary and the important.One that often need reminding of also. I had never heard "Slow and Steady wins the Race"until this past February as I searched the internet for information on infantile spasms.By God's Grace I was immediately led to our friend Sam and his family.Another amazing child full of resiliency and strength.This is their mantra and one we too have adopted.It helps keep things in perspective.Ivey is a true wonder and as always,I so love coming by and checking in on your little piece of the world
I have a list of favorite quotes and these are a couple of my favs:
I've learned that when I feel overwhelmed or stressed, I need to back off and remind myself that I can't do everything at once.
There is NO Superwoman.
You are an incredible mother and an inspiration to us all.
Have a good day.
A Friend.
you make me smile, Gwen... (and Ivey)
"Slow and steady wins the race.." That is a great quote. I love it and so true.
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