Siblings of kiddos with disabilities are amazing humans walking amongst us. They live a life, most often, in the shadows of their sibling who simply needs "more". More time. More direct attention. More of more. We have now come to a fork in our road. Our boys are young men, and, our daughter is a young lady. I'll be honest, I was uncertain what life would look like once the boys left this home, once they had their own time, in their own personal sunshine. We found out quickly once Knox left for college his freshman year what that would look like. And then, when Walker left, we knew what life would feel like in their absence. There was too much space. Ivey felt it. We get many compliments about the relationship the boys and Ivey have with one another. Hints here and there that, maybe, Matt and I had some secret recipe to parenting a household with a child that is very medically complex and a very complex communicator. This is what I can tell you - there is no re...
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Your little girl is beautiful, and peppermint icecream - what a treat!! It is one of my faves, too! Jesus bless your baby girl!
Hope you have a very 1st Christmas little Ivey and that your family does too!!!
I can't begin to tell you how much you and precious Ivey are ministering to me and probably to millions. Your words, your beauty just inspire my life. God has definitely given you a special journey, I'm sure one you wouldn't have choosen but nonetheless, you are carrying with great honor. You are seeing the world through the eyes of little Ivey and that is something not many of us would have ever taken the time to do. You are privileged. You are honored. And you have so much to teach us.All through a little girl. Without her, we would have never had this opportunity.
Those days when you are tired Gwen, let those around you carry you, hold you and embrace you so that we too can experience some of that love first hand.
I so admire you and your family.
Thank you for honoring our Heavenly Father with this journey.
We have much to learn.
Connie Barris
(Christa's Aunt)
Thank you for continuing to bless those of us around you by sharing your sweet daughter with us!
I've been out of town, but wanted to catch up now that we're back.
Have a blessed Christmas with your sweeties, Gwen!