6.21.2006

Thanks so much for everyone's continued care and concern for Ivey and our family. As some of you may know, Ivey is now traveling to Scottish Rite and other specialty doctors. I thought I would share with you our newest discoveries and confirmations about Ivey's condition. Ivey does have Chromosome 21q-partial deletion syndrome. This syndrome is known to involve mental, motor and growth retardation. We know some concrete problems that Ivey faces; however, we will only be able to gauge her mental and motor development over time. Basically, we can identify more of her physical issues for the time being. The Craniofacial Clinic at Scottish Rite thinks we will be able to repair Ivey's lip between 3 and 5 months of age and her palate somewhere between 6 and 9 months of age. In the meantime, we are taping Ivey's cleft lip with steri strips to prepare her for surgery. She does have anophthalmia- which is the cause of her blindness. This means the tissue for her eyes did not form. She has microcephaly. Her heart condition is the same as in the beginning. It has a dysplastic aortic valve, but it is working fine. Ivey also has contractures of her joints. She has started therapy to help with this. Ivey has a significant case of reflux, to which many of you can relate. Ivey also has a difficult time feeding. Some of this problem is related to her reflux. However, she can only retain 35 ml at one feeding. (30 ml = 1 ounce) Therefore, she is small for an eight week old who was fullterm. She weighs only 7 lbs. Growing will be a problem for Ivey. This is why Matt and I constantly focus on her feedings and reflux. Ivey has many obstacles to overcome and many battles face her that are still unknown. We count our blessings to know that she is surrounded by so much love.
I know everyone is anxious to meet Ivey. I would like to introduce all of you to her (since she can't get "out" yet). She has beautiful brown hair; unfortunately for Matt, the hair that has fallen out is coming back blonde. She has a fair complexion. I think she looks more like Walker. Ivey does have the cleft lip, but she has a sweet grin. As for her eyes, she looks like she is asleep the majority of the time. There is a definite distinction between her sleep and awake time. Ivey does have a "personality", just like any other baby she coos, cries and fusses at us. Ivey loves to be touched and calms when we talk to her. I have noticed that she responds to voices that she recognizes, especially Traci's. Ivey definitely knows that Knox and Walker are special. I hope this helps you to envision Ivey in all of her wonder.
I also want you all to know how grateful we are for our family and friends. As Kerri Giles said, it will take a village---thank heavens for our village.
We love you all,
Gwen

4 comments:

Willingham13 said...
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Willingham13 said...

Matt and Gwen,

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers daily. SO many people are praying for your family and I know that God hears each and every one of our prayers. If there is anything that I can do please do not hesitate to call me. Love always, Monica and Morgan

Jennifer said...

Gwen- Thanks for taking the time to put together such a thorough update--and such a wonderful description of Ivey. She is a little beauty!

Sarah said...

Gwen, Jenmom sent me to your site. I'm in a similar situation to your own; I have two little boys and had a daughter May 8th who needs open-heart surgery and most likely has an extremely rare genetic disorder that causes developmental delays and retardation. As I know you can imagine, we are reeling. Thank you for sharing your journey; knowing I am not the only one with dashed dreams, an uncertain future, and a heavy heart doesn't make it easier, but it does remind me that I'm not the only one doing this.

I'll check back on your family; I hope all goes well with Scottish Rite and her upcoming surgeries.

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